Tommy and Thomas

There is good and evil in all places, there is more evil inside the CT Department of Children and Families that will chill you to the bone. To hear and read all of the horror that one agency has brought to so many innocent families, and for one thing MONEY. No child should have a price tag, but they do. No parent should have to go through what this agency has done to so many. With the hundreds of story’s this site has been sent, there is one that is so disturbing it keeps me and many awake at night. It is out of the New Britain DCF office, involving Temple Retamar, and what she has done to a boy and his grandmother, who’s father was murdered. Your careless ways and what you have done with your lies and deceit, to a family who has faced such a tragedy and your lack of care is the most inhumane thing one could do.

A loving family torn apart after the murder of this boys father. His name was Tommy his son’s name is Thomas, this man loved his son more than you will ever know. Not only has his mother suffered and continues to do so from the loss of her best friend her son Tommy you took away her grandson in such a manner that there are no words for what you have done.  What this broken family has gone through is unbelievable, and it truly breaks my heart to know what a disgrace you Temple Retamar, a “social worker” from the D.C.F office in New Britain Ct . Thomas has suffered a tremendous loss and you never once got him the counseling he needed so very much. Not only did you NOT meet the needs of this boy, you made a horrific tragedy even worse by taking him away from the closest thing to his father, the woman who loved and cared for him since birth. You told his grandmother that he would be going back to Vermont where he was loved and cared for with his grandmother. But YOU Temple Retamar had already made plans for him to stay in Connecticut with his maternal grandparents, people he did not want to be with, he made it very clear.   His Grandmother needed no help from the state, she could provide for all of his needs. The grandmother he knew had a bond with. She  lives in Vermont and as she waits for Thomas  to come home she learns from another worker that he would be staying in Connecticut, a place far away from what he knew as home.  Temple Retamar NEVER once looked at the consequences of not getting him counseling for the murder of his father, nor show what would be best for HIM through this tragedy.  Although there was care and concern about Social Security check he would be getting every month. Having him in Vermont would not benefit Connecticut in any way. As Thomas was told one thing, you Temple Retamar did another with his BEST interest not mind. He had expressed the want to be with his Grandmother many times, he had been very close to her since he was born. Temple Retamar  showed no care that this boy lost his father, and would now be losing the closest thing to him, his grandmother in Vermont, where he had lived before this all took place.

Temple Retamar from New Britain CT D.C.F, do you have any idea what you have done? What your lies have done to this once innocent boy? If you could have only done what was right, and listened to him to his cry to be with his grandmother. As his father watches from above, as he watched you deceive his son and his mother and disregard helping him. The careless choices you made  set this boy up for FAILURE. Are you happy now Temple Retamar? As so many think that judgement day will never come, it does. How as yourself being a parent could you cause so much harm? A man was killed, his son’s life and decisions were in your hands. As a mother, if the tables were turned and it was YOU who lost a child, would you wish the same outcome upon yourself? Temple Retamar, as you have heard all things come clean in the wash. Sweeping things under the bumpy rug will one day be uncovered. It is never to late Temple Retamar to be honest, to assist in anyway you can to do the right thing for this boy, for the father he lost, and for a loving grandmother that you betrayed. Try being honest and admit you did NOTHING to help him.

So many other families are going to be sharing what they have experienced with you as a “social worker” for the Department of Children And Families. It seems as if it is just a job, and you enjoy making lives of many miserable. You have two sides to your face, and neither one helps anyone.

YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN, YOUR FAMILY MISSES YOU TOMMY. I AM SURE YOU ARE WATCHING OVER, YOU KNOW YOUR MOM
SHE WILL NOT GIVE UP

Thomas and his loving grandmother from Vermont

Mother and son... best friends, Your Mom And Your son miss you so very much

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