Something, many things are wrong in this state, DCF/CPS  and the Federal money they get for taking children illegally. Family courts and orders that are given are as useless as a dirty diaper. Who is it you go to to about the injustice? There is no one, no one listens. The Judicial committee I thought was supposed to help and protect, I need to stop thinking… So many ask, “what do I do” I do not have the answer but am searching for it. I have a hard time understanding why it is so hard for a mother or a father to be able to be a parent to a child they love. When there is an order in place and it is useless because there are some parent’s that use children as a “tool” to get back at the other parent. Yes it hurts the parent but the real damage is done to the child. Children are innocent, they should not be kept away from a parent due to ill feeling from the non custodial parent. It is the most selfish act that could possibly be done.  A break up or divorce is not easy, but why? WHY take it out on the child, the mental scars that are left on that child are scars that will always be there.

Shame on the court’s for allowing this. Shame on the custodial parent for keeping a child or children that belong to both parents. It turns into “my” child not ours. Court orders hold no weight, they are not enforced, children need both parents, and so many are being robbed by having the right to play a part in the child or children’s lives.

When an order is made and you have set days to see your child/children if the other parent breaks the order, file a motion for contempt, or call the police and show them your order, they will help enforce the order, and ensure you see your child/children. There are FAR to many parents that are just plain selfish, and do not care about what the children feel. Children should not be used as bait, or a way of control.

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